Friday, November 20, 2009

Today, my name is Bisexual.

Caught your attention did I?
For many, many years I've been asked on a regular basis if I was bisexual or a lesbian.
Now, I'm not really sure how it is (at all) any of your business, but I'll tell you anyway.
I am NOT bisexual and I am NOT a lesbian. I am (I guess you can say) bi-curious.

Bi-curious is a term used to refer to someone who does not identify as bisexual or homosexual but feels or shows some curiosity in a relationship or sexual activity with someone of the same sex.

I could never really see myself in a relationship with a chick, but I have done things with some before and I probably will again. I don't think that I could ever be a lesbian because.. Well, I like penis too much to just leave it forever. lol.

One thing that has been on my mind for years is gay people. I know quite a few gay people and I dislike the way that the general public views them. A man I know (and love ) is gay and has been for quite some time. A while ago, we used to talk about how his being gay has brought problems into his life. When he was in high school, he used to get picked on and ridiculed for being gay. When I was younger, things like that would make me laugh, but now that I'm older and a tad bit wiser, I've come to understand that it isn't a laughing matter. I know way too many people who hate on gay people for stupid reasons. I've asked frequently why some of my guy 'friends' dislike gay people and their response is 'they're gonna try to hit on me'. WHHATT!??!? Don't fucking piss me off man. Are you fucking retarded? Why the fuck do some guys think that every gay man is going to try to hit on them? You think you're the only fucking guy out there? In case some of you didn't know, gay people are human too. They feel, think, eat and play like everyone else. Why do they get treated like shit? Btw, not every gay man wants to suck your dick you selfish, conceited cunts.

I'm always defending gay people.. I guess that explains why everyone thinks I like chicks. I defend gay people all the time, even when conversing with my uber religious grandmother. Don't get me wrong though, I don't think they even need my help because they can do it on their own.. I just get so frustrated when I witness blind sighted comments and/or gestures.

Many people need to stop hating on the gay community and let them live their lives. I think that gay people are strong. Very strong. Especially the only who openly say that they are gay. Can you imagine how scared they must feel telling people? I can't. I respect gay people so much it's ridiculous. I've been to Pride 2 years in a row and I will continue to go for as long as I can. It's so amazing!

Anywho, I'm going to stop here. I have much more to say but I need to get on to my next blog =D

4 comments:

  1. lol i totally agree with you on that one..especially the 1st paragraph..lol
    Guess Who

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  2. Sup Mouse/Brittany,

    Plentyofpoliteness won't let me swear so I'm posting here. This might be a rant, I don’t know why the hell I’m doing this but either delete this shit or stop, drop, and read blog-style. I cuss like a pirate with one hook and one testicle.

    I read your blog and no, I don’t give a fuck if you’re bisexual and if you’re a trysexual good for you. I had some weird reaction to your blog (not just this post) and this is a response to it (and to you) and my way of saying “hi” in fashion that suites me: like an assclown.

    I study equity in university. Equity focuses on social justice, you know, like fighting for gays, women, racialized people and all the real shit everyone loves to hate. Why am trying to help other people when I agree I was born alone and I‘ll rot alone? Because I can piss people off and be called a coolie boy who is a nigger lover. Their hatred gives me joy ‘cuse I do love my sistas. I’m no Jesus freaking Christ and I’m not running around hugging everybody like Richard Simmons on Prozac, so yea, I have priorities, I focus on racism. Because it affects ME the most, and keeping myself happy is most important. You can only help others once you helped yourself first.

    I have a lot to say on gay bashing, but, it will make this into a motherfucking essay, so all I’m going to say is yea gays need you to defend them, they can’t dick it alone, ‘cuse they don’t live alone they live with everyone else. Washing your hand’s of the conflict between the powerful and the powerless means to side with the powerful.

    Yea, and your balls are bigger then most guys, (hopefully, not as sweaty) you’re not different, you RESIST, RESIST, RESIST, fucking norms in society control people left right and under the table. I don’t know if society is ever going to accept people like us, acceptance was never in the agenda of this society. The most power in society comes from its control over BODIES. Yea power, like the cops with guns that controls bodies? No, not power focused on death, I’m talking about power that has emphasis on the protection of life. Meaning the regulation of the body, and the production of other technologies of power, such as the notion of sexuality, and stuff like the regulation of customs, habits, health, reproductive practices, family and so on.

    Good news for you, being who you are, on the fringes of societal normalcy, you occupy a liminal space that allows you to see from the outside, you can see stuff about this society that most bitch people can not. Gift from God, you just being a badass, whatever you want to call it, you got the power.

    Of course, I live near Scarborough and you live up in Mississauga, so I doubt you would even bother to reply, but I’m just being optimistic as a dumbfuck Boy Scout.

    The Fat Lady is singing,
    Peace

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  3. im gonna keep this short and sweet.. mouse von diggity.. after i seen ur first pic.. i was hypnotized for a few seconds ;) but after reading ur blog, i see ur not just another pretty face. i like how ure very opinionated and try not to fit in any of the norms of society.. do ur thing and help people help themselves.. regarding the gay thing, a few years back i used to be one of those people calling them derogatory names.. but things have changed since then , and im a little more wiser and i try and be understandable.. not in a way where im better than anyone else, but id just like to put myself in their shoes.. its refreshing to see u type the awy u do with passion and a genuine zest for what u think really matters.. now that ive kissed ur ass and my lips are sore, im gonna end it here
    P.S. u have nice tits.. lol i just had to say it.. please dont think ill of me ;)

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